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How to Plan a Wedding in Connecticut

A just-for-you guide from someone who plans here all the time

Blue Fish Photography
Blue Fish Photography

Planning a wedding in Connecticut? You’re in for something special. This state has it all. Waterfront views, grand estates, cozy countryside charm, and city spots that feel like they were made for a black-tie moment. But if you’re wondering how to make it all come together in a way that feels elevated and seamless, I got you.


Here’s your no-fluff, actually-useful breakdown of how to plan a wedding in Connecticut the right way. And yes, there is a right way.


Start With Season and Setting


Connecticut is stunning year-round, but timing matters here more than you think. Fall foliage? Gorgeous but competitive. Spring blooms? Dreamy and a little unpredictable. Summer sunshine? Great but book fast. Winter weddings? Moody and cozy if you pick the right venue.


Once you know your season, your setting should follow. Are you coastal or countryside? Want a mansion, museum, vineyard, or private estate? Connecticut offers everything from yacht clubs in Mystic to rolling hills in Litchfield County. But each one comes with its own set of rules, preferred vendors, and quirks. Choose a vibe, then let that lead your venue search.


Lock in the Right Venue Early


This is not the place to wait and see. Connecticut venues book out quickly, especially the ones that check all the boxes. Think natural beauty, solid rain plan, good flow, and strong vendor access.


Pro tip: ask about sound restrictions and end times. A lot of Connecticut venues (especially private estates and older buildings) have quiet hours. You don’t want your dance floor shut down at 9:59 pm because you didn’t ask the right questions.


Bring in a Planner Who Knows the Market


To plan a wedding in Connecticut, you need someone who actually works here. The best vendors are often local legends. The backroads can get wild on fall weekends. And some venues have rules you’ll never find on the website.


As Irene + Co Events has been planning weddings in Connecticut for 10 years, we can confidently say we are the best planners in Connecticut for couples looking to get the job done right and with the most dedicated team next to them. Whether it’s a tent on private property or a full weekend celebration at the new Delamar Mystic, we’ve flexed and figured it out more times than we can count.


You want someone who’s already worked with the tent company, knows which rental companies show up on time, and can tell you which hotels actually follow through on your room block. You want someone who can tell you when to avoid Route 1 traffic and when to schedule your photos for the best light at Wadsworth Mansion or the Delamar. That’s us.


Understand the Investment


Weddings in Connecticut are not cheap, but they are worth it. If you’re planning anything over 75 guests with multiple vendors, a full-service experience, and real attention to detail, you’re looking at a six-figure starting point. This includes everything from catering and rentals to entertainment, transportation, and florals.


What matters most is how you allocate that budget. Prioritize what you actually care about. Be honest about what you want to feel and remember. Then let your planner help you build the team and timeline to make that vision real.


Be Ready for Real Weather


This isn’t California. Rain is real. Wind is real. Humidity in August is absolutely real. So if you’re planning an outdoor wedding, have a weather plan you actually like. We build in real solutions for real weather here. Tent plans. Floor plans. Shoe swaps. Umbrella orders. All of it.


You don’t want a last-minute pivot to feel like a downgrade. We make sure it feels like a design decision, not a disaster. Because weddings in Connecticut are breathtaking in any season as long as you prepare for the season you’re actually getting.


TLDR;

Planning a Connecticut wedding means picking the right season, locking in a venue early, hiring a planner who knows the market, and building a team that understands how to deliver a high-end experience with hands-on execution. Your budget needs to match your vision, your weather plan needs to be real, and your planner should have solutions before problems show up. We’ve been doing this in Connecticut for a decade and know exactly how to make it all happen. Let’s plan your perfect day.

 
 
 

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